You Can’t Be Bill Gates Now But You Can Try This Better Goal
How many times have you been told
to set incredible goals? How many times have you been told to set daunting
goals that you are currently unable to achieve? It is a good piece of advice
but it is incomplete. To achieve your goals in practice, you have to adopt a
better strategy.
When we set goals, we must always
know that our goals will face reality. Any goal that fails to consider the
meeting point between it and reality may face its unachievable end. The most
important reason to set any goal is to achieve it.
Setting incredible goals is very
good but focusing on incredible goals that you can only hope to achieve in 5 or
10 years will likely lead to frustration and inability to achieve the goal.
Especially when you meet obstacles.
Let us consider Alex, a young
programmer. Alex has been inspired by Bill Gates since he was young. Bill Gates
had a mission to provide a computer for every home and Alex believed Bill Gates
has done a lot to change the world.
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Alex has a goal to build the next
Microsoft, to introduce a ground-breaking product that will change the world.
From his teens, Alex learnt all the programming languages that he thought were
important.
Although some of the languages
were difficult, Alex was determined to know them and he managed to be very good
in most of them.
When Alex got to the University,
he saw that there were many students like him who were good in programming and
also wanted to change the world. In fact, many of them were better than him in
programming.
When he finished school, he
applied for a position at Microsoft but he was unable to get in because the
competition was better than him. He decided to begin his own start-up. He
thought he would have more impact than working in another company.
His first start-up failed and the
second and the third. He was angry. He never knew changing the world could be
this hard. One day, he met one of his professors at a conference.
“Alex,” the professor said as he
patted him on the back. “You have to solve the small problems first before you
look at the big ones.
“You want to be Bill Gates but
you can’t be Bill Gates now. Bill Gates in 1970 is not the Bill Gates you know
today. He solved the small problems first. Solve the small problems first,
that’s how you begin to change the world.”
Alex learnt an important lesson, that
to change the world, he first has to change the world he can see, his immediate
community. It is a story of building from the small onto the bigger things. You
can apply this to your goals setting when next you decide to pursue that
incredible goal.
In various aspects of living,
there are rules and exceptions. These rules and exceptions affect how we set
our goals and it helps define what we see as reasonable and unreasonable
targets.
Many times, when you are
inspired, you tend to look at an incredible achievement and set your goals
accordingly. It is good to be outstanding but it could be a mistake to set out
to have a goal that had only been achieved by two people in your field.
It is advisable to set a goal
that a thousand people have achieved. At the beginning, there is a more
realistic target and you’re more likely to achieve this than looking at an
achievement that had only been twice. When you reach your realistic target, you
can set new higher targets.
Am I in any way saying you should
not aim to be like Bill Gates or set incredible goals? No. Set incredible
goals. As many as you want. But prepare your incredible goals for their meeting
with reality.
How do you achieve your
incredible goals when you meet with realities you never envisioned? You have to
break your incredible goals down as much as you can.
If you fail to break your goal
down, you may fail too many times to achieve it that you later give up on the
goal altogether. But there are always smaller goals you can achieve that will
move you towards the achievement of your ultimate incredible goal.
Let’s say you are a young father
or you have a sibling who is a baby and has just started crawling. One of your
goals for that baby may be to see him jump up one day. That’s an achievable
goal for the baby but you know it will take time to see that crawling baby
jump.
What can you do? Break that big
goal down into smaller goals. The smaller goals include translating from
crawling to taking steps, from taking steps to walking properly, from that to
running, and then to your ultimate goal for the baby, jumping.
If you focus on jumping
straightaway, you will get frustrated easily and it will look like you are
making no progress. If you focus on taking steps however, it looks much more
achievable. And it doesn’t mean you have thrown away your ultimate goal but you
have prepared it better to face reality.
If you achieve that smaller goal
of taking the steps, it’s still a step towards achieving the ultimate goal. The
catch is that you can’t achieve your ultimate goal without going through those
steps.
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Or let’s consider you on a
workday when you have to drive to your place of work. What is your ultimate aim
when you enter your car in your house? To get to your workplace, but is that
your primary focus when you switch the ignition? Probably not.
Your first point of focus is to
get your car out of your house and onto the road. That is the first small goal
that you must achieve if you must achieve your ultimate aim. You will agree
with me that if you hit your car against a wall on your way out of your house,
then that car will definitely not get you to your workplace that morning.
When you get on the road
successfully, your next focus is to drive like a responsible citizen (according
to the law of your country), obey traffic rules, and watch out for other
drivers on the road.
If you fail at this step and you
hit your car against another car, then your car will not get you to work that
day and that may even be the least of your worries. If you succeed in this
stage, then you will probably get to work some minutes later, in your car.
We can see that even with an
event as simple as getting to your workplace, you still have to achieve some
smaller goals that lead to your ultimate goal of getting to your workplace.
How many times have you seen road
accidents caused by people focused on their ultimate goal rather than the
current smaller goal? Many times. Many times, you have probably seen a man who
was rushing to the office because he was almost late and forgot traffic rules.
In these cases, we have seen accidents occur and that man is unable to achieve
his ultimate goal of getting to his office. Because he neglected the current
smaller goal of obeying traffic rules or looking out for other motorists.
There are four things we can
bring out to learn about goal setting:
1. Set incredible goals
Set incredible goals. We must
always aim to achieve as high as we can. Steve Jobs said: ‘those who are crazy
enough to believe they can change the world are those who end up changing the
world.’ Set your goals of changing the world.
2. Break your incredible goals into the smallest parts possible
There are many small goals you
have to achieve that will lead to your ultimate goal. List all the small goals
you will have to achieve to finally achieve your big goal.
3. Pick the small goal for today
Your small goals most probably
look like a chain. Some of those small goals are prerequisite to other goals.
Which goal is at the beginning of the chain? Pick that goal.
If you want to be the best furniture
maker in your country and you’re just starting, what is the first small goal
you have to achieve? Outline that goal.
4. Focus on that small goal
Focus on achieving the small goal
you have picked for the day or week. When you achieve this, you have a small
victory and you can move on to the next small goal on the chain.
Conclusion
Why is this a better strategy?
The small goal is just a trick to make you achieve your big goal. The small
goal is easily achievable because it’s not too far from your current step.
When you fail to achieve the
small goal, you’re not too frustrated because you are confident you can really
achieve it. Confidence may be the last thing you have if you focus on your
incredible goal that looks so far away.
The catch is that even though you
are achieving the small goals, if you achieve all the small goals on the chain,
then you will ultimately achieve your incredible goal. Break it down today.
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